Smart phones and instant/always connected - A school bans them

My wife leaves the house sometimes and FORGETS HER PHONE!! WHO DOES THAT

I always hated being tethered. By radio before cell phones and after. I can't imagine having one when I was young.

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I don't believe that's such an egregious step as to draw ire or non-applicable comparisons.

How long have you been here? That's what I do.

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My wife leaves the house sometimes and FORGETS HER PHONE!! WHO DOES THAT

I sometimes forget my phone, but never my knife. I can stand up and instantly know it's not there.

I agree with the phones being great for emergencies especially of the family type. I also agree that if one kept em on vibrate and just did a quick scan to see if the call was indeed an emergency? that would be good.

Soooo.... my power went out at 6 am it was not on when I got up at 7 No coffee! no computer! Soooo I had to fire up the smart phone and try to actually use it in a useful way.

'Say something' Ok.... PGE power outages... wait wait wait then get nonsense. Ok... try something else... wait wait wait... I use my computer. it is fast fast fast. I can also navigate easily. Smart phone? mostly? waste of time.

lazs

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I agree with the phones being great for emergencies especially of the family type. I also agree that if one kept em on vibrate and just did a quick scan to see if the call was indeed an emergency? that would be good.

Soooo.... my power went out at 6 am it was not on when I got up at 7 No coffee! no computer! Soooo I had to fire up the smart phone and try to actually use it in a useful way.

'Say something' Ok.... PGE power outages... wait wait wait then get nonsense. Ok... try something else... wait wait wait... I use my computer. it is fast fast fast. I can also navigate easily. Smart phone? mostly? waste of time.

lazs

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You get better results by typing what you want in whatever browser the phone has installed on it.

When the power would go out back when I was tied to the electrical grid like most of you poor souls still are, I would use my smart phone as a hotspot for my laptop if I needed a computer.

Home generators FTW!

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From the WSJ:

A boarding school is conducting a social experiment: a smartphone ban for all students and faculty.

Buxton School, a 57-student high school in Williamstown, in northwest Massachusetts, had always prided itself on its close-knit community, where family-style meals are eaten at round tables and students and teachers share in chores. But as smartphones became ubiquitous, faculty members say that sense of community eroded.

Students often looked down at screens during meals and even in class, where phones were prohibited. Teachers grew tired of being gadget police. Kids retreated to their rooms after class to scroll and text rather than gathering in student lounges. When the Covid-19 pandemic hit in 2020 and the school closed for a few months, class went virtual and things got worse.

“We found our students had disengaged more and more from real life as their phones became their world,” says John Kalapos, Buxton’s associate head of school, who graduated from the school in 2013. The trend continued after students returned to campus, he says.

Mr. Kalapos realized something needed to be done late last year after a student live-streamed a physical altercation. Watched on social media by many students, the fight became the talk of the school. He and other administrators began discussing a ban. Many students thought that the school wouldn’t actually do it—and that stripping phones from teens was unrealistic.

But it happened.

This fall, students weren’t permitted to have smartphones on campus, and teachers agreed not to use them. Instead, they would all receive minimalist Light Phones for essential communication. The announcement resulted in chaos, Mr. Kalapos says. “Everyone was crying. Kids were yelling at us,” he recalls. “Parent feedback was really mixed.”

Now, nearly two months in, students are getting used to life without social media and the drama of group texts—even if not all of them love it. Although it’s a measure that other school administrators couldn’t even dream of adopting, the lessons could be useful.

“There are some things that are annoying about not having your phone, like watching videos,” says Emilio Martinez Buenrostro, a 16-year-old sophomore.

Still, he says, he’s gotten used to not being glued to his screen all the time. It’s nice to see other students walking around campus without looking down at their phones, he adds.

Bea Sas, an 18-year-old senior at Buxton, says it has been a relief. Now, she can go on strolls or study without being bombarded by notifications and the pressure to respond to texts.

The teachers say they, too, have had to adjust. “I used to have my smartphone on my desk when I was teaching, and there were moments of checking in with the outside world. Now, there’s nothing that brings me out of the classroom,” says math teacher Adrian St. John.

The school is surveying students and teachers throughout the year to assess how the smartphone ban is going. In the first installment, conducted in September, students said the ban hasn’t been as bad as they feared. Teachers said students are more engaged in class.

Students can still have tablets and smartwatches under certain circumstances. Digital cameras are allowed. All students can have laptops, from which they’re allowed to access social media. The idea, Mr. Kalapos says, wasn’t to cut off students entirely from the outside world, but to make it harder to have online drama accessible at all times from their pockets.

The school wanted to make sure parents and students could still reach each other, so it supplied the Light Phones. The devices have basic call and text functioning but no internet browser, camera or apps. Texting is designed to be clunky, and many students say it’s so slow that they don’t bother texting more than a few words at a time.

Light Chief Executive Kaiwei Tang says the majority of the phone’s users are young adults trying to be more intentional about their phone use. But he says parents are getting interested in Light Phones for their kids. Buxton is the first school with which the company has partnered. Light is lending refurbished phones; the school pays for service.

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This is based AF. I confiscate phones when they enter my classroom, and lock them up. It's against district policy, but my principal looks the other way. If parents complained then she might have to stop me, but guess what, parents don't complain. In fact the kids rarely complain. My class is fun and popular and it's more fun if you actually engage with the work.

So you take things that aren't yours without permission. That is the definition of stealing.

The fact that you are in a position of authority makes what you do bullying.

Your coming denials simply make you an entire bag of dicks.

Weaning people from their smart phones is not easy but... Often they will see the advantages. Like the above mentioned classroom.

lazs